Safety Guidelines

1. Fundamental Safety Principles

Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC)

• Safe: Activities should minimize physical and emotional harm
• Sane: Participants should be of sound mind and judgment
• Consensual: All activities must be agreed upon by all parties

Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK)

• Acknowledge that all activities carry some level of risk
• Make informed decisions about acceptable risk levels
• Ensure all participants understand and consent to risks
• Take responsibility for risk mitigation and safety measures

2. Consent and Communication

Ongoing Consent

Consent is not a one-time agreement. It's an ongoing process that can be withdrawn at any time. Regular check-ins and open communication are essential.

3. Meeting Safety

First Meetings

• Always meet in public places first
• Tell a trusted friend where you're going and when you'll return
• Have your own transportation
• Trust your instincts - if something feels wrong, leave
• Don't feel pressured to engage in activities immediately

Ongoing Safety Measures

• Verify identity and references when possible
• Start slowly and build trust over time
• Maintain boundaries around personal information
• Have emergency contacts and safety plans

4. Activity-Specific Safety

Safety Equipment and Preparation

• Use appropriate safety equipment (safety shears, first aid kit)
• Learn proper techniques before attempting new activities
• Have emergency plans and know when to seek medical help
• Practice activities in low-risk environments first

5. Emotional and Mental Health

Aftercare

Aftercare is the emotional and physical care given after intense activities. It helps participants transition back to their normal headspace safely.

• Discuss aftercare needs before activities
• Provide comfort, reassurance, and physical care as needed
• Check in with partners in the days following intense scenes
• Be aware of subdrop and other emotional responses

Mental Health Considerations

• Be aware of your mental health status and limitations
• Seek professional help when needed
• Understand the difference between consensual activities and abuse
• Know that it's okay to take breaks or step back

6. Community Guidelines

Respectful Behavior

• Treat all community members with respect and dignity
• Respect others' boundaries and limits
• Don't pressure anyone into activities they're not comfortable with
• Report inappropriate behavior to moderators

Privacy and Discretion

• Respect others' privacy and confidentiality
• Don't share personal information without permission
• Be mindful of others' need for discretion
• Use appropriate privacy settings on your profile

7. Emergency Resources

8. Reporting and Support

If you experience or witness unsafe behavior, harassment, or violations of these guidelines, please report it immediately. We take all reports seriously and will investigate promptly.